To my mind kissing does not get the attention it deserves. The term “bad”-kisser is either applicable to some one who has never learned to kiss or someone that’s non-responsive. Both these maladies can be healed with teaching & guidance. Most important however is that lover’s kissing must come from within mentally as wanton and physically as sharing a personal build-up to the ultimate climaxed goal of physical bonding. I share some thoughts from an article in “Mothers for life”:

The history of kissing goes as far back as 1500 BC. “lovers place lips on the other’s lips” & Hindu Law at the time: “drink from the lips of slaves” But the ‘kissing’ also derives from human mothers feeding their babies-mouth to mouth, similar to birds.

Some Physical facts: Kissing burns 2 to 6 calories per minute. In the process, 12 muscles in your lips & 19 muscles in you tongue is active. Energy exerted is similar to a 500 m sprint! Kissing liberates the oxytocin hormone that reduces anxiety & makes you feel closer to your partner. Masculine saliva contains testorone which exites both partners sexually. The effect lasts twice longer in women then in men.

A few tips….

Relentless tongue turning: Play and tickle with the tongue. Circles is a no-no.

All your tongue in partner’s mouth: A little is enough.Really.

Biting upper-lip: A little nibbling perhaps but biting causes hurt and partner loses focus.

If partner is not in the mood for kissing: Don’t force it & don’t overdo it.

Sucking partner’s tongue: A little if need be, but your partner’s tongue is not a drinking straw.

Too much saliva: Kiss for awhile but swallow now & again. A saliva tsunami is never too sexy.

When to stop: After a while when you feel like the feeling and urge has gone, know when to stop. Especially if you want to kiss again later.