Willie Van Aswegen
2 min readNov 6, 2020

Inter action between you brain and your sex tools.

I share some thoughts & actions that has come to me through many years of experience :

Never pull out immediately after you’ve ‘shot-your-load’ in her. Immaterial if she has climaxed with you or just before. That moment your cum shoots in her is the ultimate peak for her. Only then can she relish that she has satisfied your yearning. It’s a deeply satisfying moment for you both, nearly pious and for at least a minute just bask in an euphory of bliss as these moments don’t come so often.

I have in fact remained inside a partner and felt my erection grow again. Rarely, but the times it occurred we picked up our actions anew and the resulting “2nd” climax was mind blowing for us both!

Also stretch your foreplay as long as you can. Observe her re-actions at all times & even if she pleads with you to enter her or had a small orgasm or two in the mean time, keep back. The ultimate ‘pre-entry’ is to rub your penis head (glans) a very few times against her clit to make her scream! It must deserve a standing ovation ☺ !

Lastly, for this article today …(give me feedback if I can share more), keep in mind that you are “making love”. You’re cock is not a piston that must hammer in-and-out at a very fast speed to keep the engine going. Rather use it like a paint brush, creating pleasure with every stroke. Vary your speed of action from ferocious to smooth and even slow. Vary the depth of your strokes, at times nearly pulling out and the opposite of reaching right up to her cervix at the end of her love-tunnel…and don’t miss the sides of her channel. A woman’s side walls in her love channel are full of extremely sensitive diodes(nerve ends)that re-acts with increased pleasure to touch. I’ve found that accompanying the ‘in/out’ action during copulation also add left/right movement and ultimately circle movements with you penis while going up/down/in/out.

Enough. Any lady reader are welcome to share her special moves with us or feed back if she has experienced any of the above.

Let the high tide ebb in your sex strokes, my lovies ♥

Willie Van Aswegen
Willie Van Aswegen

Written by Willie Van Aswegen

Writer, adviser, discoverer, raconteur on sex, 73 yrs old and still going strong! Love women: any age or body, providing the mind is open and the body sharing.

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